1. You have endless topics to talk about.
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Being able to seek out somebody and spend as much time with them as possible provides you an inside inspect their mind and psychology. This way, you can see how compatible you are. If you’re with somebody that you will have long conversations with, even when ten years of knowing them, this is often a very sensible sign.
This means you’ll always have something to talk about with each other because you both find your conversations to be extremely interesting. You don’t have to talk about politics or world news — even a long conversation about your favorite animals or subjects that are not considered that important can keep the relationship’s spark! This is a sure sign that your relationship is heading down a positive path.
2. You have countless inside jokes.
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Having a relationship with someone you’ll call your best friend is something that’s meant to last. once you have someone you tend to spend your daily life with, even if you’re distant and are still able to share very little details that end in inside jokes, it shows that you simply have a powerful bond with one another and share a similar sense of humor. making each other laugh and enjoying each other’s goofy side is that the key to happiness and everyone will relate to it, especially once they think about their best friend.
According to research done by the University of Vancouver, couples who consider their spouse to be their best friend had higher levels of happiness and satisfaction than those who didn’t. Being in a relationship with someone you can call your best friend means that you have great communication and that you spend more time together in order to get comfortable enough to share little embarrassing details that you can then laugh about!
3. You find their annoying habits extremely cute.
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Everyone has minor bad habits — some aren’t as obvious as others — however once you’re with somebody for a long time, you’ll begin to notice those very little annoying things that make them special. as an example, they may have a bad habit of never checking their phone or constantly keeping it on silent therefore you’ll hardly reach them. although most of the people may notice that annoying, you recognize them very well and will find it cute that they’re not addicted to being on their phone all the time.
Or perhaps they have a really annoying laugh that everyone finds intolerable but you find hilarious! There are countless traits and habits that most people would find annoying, but when you’re with someone you really care about, you see those habits as part of their identity and you love them more because of it!
4. You have a toothbrush and an extra pair of PJs at their place.
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As relationships progress, it’s normal to leave some of your stuff over at your partner’s house. the easy act of leaving just one toothbrush or hairbrush over at your partner’s house will have a awfully deep symbolic meaning in today’s society generally. This doesn’t essentially mean that you’re getting to move in along, however it means that you enjoy spending the afternoons and evenings along instead of being on your own.
If you start to notice that you have an extra toothbrush and some of your necessities at your partner’s place without it being a nuisance for either of you, it means that the relationship is slowly progressing to the next level. And don’t panic when you hear the term, “next level”! All it means is that you’re comfortable and trusting enough to have some of your stuff over at each other’s places without it being a big deal.
5. You can’t stand spending nights apart.
Spending your nights together with your significant other is one of the most wonderful feelings in the world! You get to cuddle and watch movies together, and it oftentimes seems like one of those sleepovers we used to have when we were kids. Sometimes, however, you have to spend time apart once things arise because of things like work or family. If you feel completely miserable after you spend time apart, this means that your relationship has reached a point where you’re both very used to being with each other and the other’s absence leaves you feeling incomplete.
According to research, couples who are used to spending most of their time together and who have established a routine every day can suffer from separation anxiety when they have to spend time apart. They can also experience mild depression and insomnia. Even though experiencing separation anxiety is quite rare, if you spend nights apart and you feel like something is not okay with you emotionally, then it’s probably because you’re so used to having your loved one around that you can’t stand to be apart from them in your everyday life.
6. You both use the word “we” a lot.
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When you’re in a relationship with someone, you always try to realize time to spend together with your friends and family so you ruin relationships with people in your circle! but, as a result of you tend to spend most of your time together with your significant other, your activities become both your activities. And that’s when the “we” starts turning into a common word in your vocabulary.
You say things like, “We watched this movie together,” or “We’re going out together with all of our friends,” or “We don’t really like this restaurant and we’re looking for new places to hang out at.” When these kinds of situations start entering your life, it means that those activities you used to do on your own are now “couple” activities that both of you enjoy!
7. You mention them in random conversations.
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It’s normal at the start of every relationship to mention your significant other often because you’re at the point of falling loving and you can’t stop thinking about them. However, after you catch yourself mentioning them in conversations that have nothing to do with them in particular, this means that you already see them as a part of your identity.
You associate with them in such a way that when a conversation arises that has the slightest association with them, you mention them because you know so much about them and they’re becoming a huge part of your life. This is when you’re subconsciously realizing that they are potentially the person you might spend the rest of your life with.
8. Your arguments are the most interesting thing ever.
t’s absolutely natural to argue with someone occasionally, especially when you’ve been together for a long time! It could be over the littlest things that don’t have any particular significance. If this happens and these arguments spark your overall feelings toward each other instead of draining you emotionally, this means it’s something that is bound to last. This is because having healthy arguments while still getting your point across can help improve the relationship and help you to learn more about each other rather than agreeing on everything and losing interest in the long run.